ﾅ ﾃﾕﾏﾞﾇﾆ ﾇ瞠贄
ﾊ貮ﾞ趾 矼ﾚﾑﾝﾉ ﾇ瞿ﾑﾞﾉ ﾇ睫 ﾊ 聿 ﾎ睇砒ﾇ ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ ﾝ
ﾇ硼ﾇﾈﾇ. 裙 ﾊﾓﾇﾁ礦 矼ﾇﾐﾇ 矼 ﾃﾊﾒ賣 ﾍﾊ ﾇ眥. ﾅ蒿
ﾝﾊﾇﾉ ﾇﾈﾇ蓖ﾉ ﾝ ﾇ睛睇ﾋ 聿 ﾇ瞽耜 ﾛﾇ睚ﾇ 翩 ﾝ趁
硼 ﾃﾕﾏﾞﾇﾆ ﾇ瞠贄. ﾅ ﾇ矍ﾊﾇﾉ ﾝ ﾚ耜ﾟ ﾌﾈ ﾃ ﾊﾟ趾
飜ﾒ賣ﾉ ﾚ蔆衂 ﾘﾝ睇. ﾈﾏ 硼 衵ﾇ ﾇ矗趁 ﾛﾑ 翕礦ﾝ.
眦 裝ﾇﾟ ﾈﾚﾖ ﾇ睇ﾎﾊ睇ﾝﾇﾊ ﾝ ﾚﾇﾏﾇﾊ ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ ﾈ ﾓ贄ﾇ
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Syrian friends are interested in marriage
of people of Japan. They wonder why I am not married
yet. I am a girl, age of 30 years old. My friends
say that in my age I must be married and become a
mother of two kids. It sounds unrealistic to me. There
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ﾟﾝ
ﾊﾊ ﾅﾌﾑﾇﾁﾇﾊ ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ ﾝ ﾇ硼ﾇﾈﾇ菫
裝ﾇ矚 ﾘﾑﾞﾊﾇ 矣ﾒ貮ﾌ ﾝ ﾇ硼ﾇﾈﾇ.
ﾇ瞿ﾑﾞﾉ ﾇ眦趁 褊 ﾇ瞿ﾑﾞﾉ ﾇ睫ﾞ硼ﾏﾉ ﾇ睫 ﾊﾊ ﾈ貮ﾓﾘﾉ ﾇ礦ﾇ睹 ﾇ矣ﾐ ﾑﾊﾈﾇ ﾅﾌﾑﾇﾁﾇﾊ ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ.
ﾇ瞿ﾑﾞﾉ ﾇ睛ﾇ蓖ﾉ 褊 ﾇ眦ﾟﾋﾑ ﾔ賍ﾇ ﾊﾞ跂 ﾚ碆 ﾊﾈﾇﾏ ﾇ睿ﾈ ﾈ ﾇ瞞ﾇﾈ ﾇ矍ﾊﾇﾉ ﾇ瞎 ﾄﾏ ﾅ碆 ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ.
衵 ﾇ瞿ﾑﾞﾉ ﾊﾚﾘ ﾇ瞞ﾈﾇﾈ ﾍﾑﾉ ﾇ睇ﾎﾊﾇﾑ 瞞ﾑﾟ ﾇ睿ﾇﾉ. ﾝﾚ蔆翩 ﾞﾑﾑ ﾇ瞞ﾇﾈ ﾇ矍ﾊﾇﾉ ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ ﾝﾅ ﾃﾓﾑﾊ裙ﾇ ﾊﾌﾊ聚ﾇ 聚ﾇ ﾊﾞ翩 ﾍﾝ睨 ﾎﾘ貶ﾉ 衵 ﾇ睿ﾝ睨 ﾊﾏﾚ "貲蓙". ﾚﾇﾏﾉ ﾞ跂 ﾇ瞑賣 ﾈﾔﾑﾇﾁ ﾍﾇﾊ肬 ﾇ睾ﾘ貶ﾉ. ﾊﾊﾈﾇﾏ ﾇ眦ﾓﾑﾊﾇ ﾇ砒ﾏﾇﾇ ﾝ ﾈﾚﾖ ﾇ眦ﾍﾇ. 裝ﾇ ﾇ眦耜 ﾎﾊ矍 聿 ﾃﾓﾑﾉ ﾅ碆 ﾃﾓﾑﾉ 聿 聿ﾘﾞﾉ ﾅ碆 聿ﾘﾞﾉ ﾃﾎﾑ.
ﾊﾞﾇ ﾍﾝ睨 ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ ﾚ碆 耙衒 ﾇ瞞萍 ﾝ ﾇ矼ﾚﾈﾏ 衵ﾇ ﾃ耜 ﾊﾞ硼ﾏ ﾝ ﾟ ﾇ硼ﾇﾈﾇ, 聿 ﾇ瞞ﾇﾆﾚ ﾍﾇ硼ﾇ ﾅﾞﾇ翹 ﾍﾝ睨 ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ ﾝ ﾇ矚蓖ﾓﾉ, ﾍﾊ 礦 矼 ﾟ ﾇ瞽ﾑﾓﾇ 耨ﾍ.
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Procedure of Japanese
marriage
There are two types of marriage, arranged marriage
and love marriage. The majority is love marriage.
Young men and women are free to choose the partner.
Once a couple intends to get marry, both families
meet together, make engagement ceremony., called 添uino.
Usually a bridegroom buy a pair of engagement rings.
Sometimes both families exchange gifts. It depends
on regions and family.
Traditionally, Japanese wedding ceremony has held
in Shinto style at a shrine. Nowadays it is common
to have it at a Church, even though a couple may not
be a Christian.
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ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ
ﾍﾓﾈ ﾇ瞿ﾑﾞﾉ ﾇ瞽ﾕﾑﾉ
ﾅ ﾇ瞞ﾈﾇ ﾇ矍ﾊﾇﾊ ﾝ ﾇ硼ﾇﾈﾇ ﾊﾒ賣趾 ﾝ ﾓ 飜ﾃﾎﾑﾉ
萼ﾈﾇ. ﾍﾋ ﾊﾒ賣 ﾇ瞞ﾇﾈ 褂 ﾝ ﾚ耜 ﾇ睫ﾇﾓﾚﾉ ﾇ瞽ﾔﾑ
ﾊﾞﾑﾈﾇ ﾃ翩 ﾇ矍ﾊﾇﾉ ﾝﾊﾊﾒ賣 ﾝ ﾚ耜 ﾇ瞠ﾇﾈﾚﾉ ﾇ瞽ﾔﾑ
ﾊﾞﾑﾈﾇ.
ﾚ蔆 ﾇﾎﾊﾇﾑ ﾔﾑﾟ ﾇ睿ﾇﾉ 裝ﾇ矚 ﾚﾏﾉ ﾃ肆ﾑ ﾊﾄﾎﾐ ﾈﾚ ﾇ睇ﾚﾊﾈﾇﾑ
耆 ﾇ瞞ﾎﾕﾉ 耜趾ﾉ ﾇ瞿ﾈﾚ ﾇ睹ﾎ ﾇ瞞衽 ﾅ睾.....
ﾃﾖﾝ ﾅ碆 ﾐ矚 ﾃ ﾇ砌ﾓﾇﾁ ﾝ ﾇ硼ﾇﾈﾇ ﾟﾓﾈ 聚ﾔﾊ裝 ﾈﾃ萬ﾓ裝.
ﾅ ﾚﾏﾏ ﾇ眦ﾘﾝﾇ ﾝ ﾇ眦ﾓﾑﾉ ﾇ硼ﾇﾈﾇ蓖ﾉ ﾚﾊﾈﾑ 飜ﾏ蓖ﾇ 聳ﾇﾑ菲 ﾈﾚﾏﾏ ﾇ睇ﾘﾝﾇ ﾝ ﾇ眦ﾓﾑﾉ ﾇ瞠贄ﾉ 耆睇 ﾅﾐ ﾈ瞻 聚ﾏ ﾚﾏﾏ ﾇ眦ﾘﾝﾇ ﾝ ﾇ眦ﾓﾑﾉ ﾇ硼ﾇﾈﾇ蓖ﾉ 1.3 ﾘﾝ睇 ﾈ蒹ﾇ ﾊﾌﾇ贅 ﾇ 3 ﾇﾘﾝﾇ ﾝ ﾇ眦ﾓﾑﾉ ﾇ瞠贄ﾉ.
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Modern
Japanese marriage
Japanese young men and women are getting married late.
The age of Japanese men when first married is 29.1years
old while that of women is 27.4 years old. When choosing
a spouse, people carefully look for character, compatibility,
income. Now women can earn their own living. Japanese
couples have less children. In 1992, the average number
of the children between Japanese couple is 1.32..
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ﾚ蔆翩
ﾊﾊﾕ ﾈ ﾃ肬 聿 ﾇ硼ﾇﾈﾇ ﾊﾓﾃ砌 ﾏﾇﾆ翩, " ﾟ跂
翩ﾐﾇ ﾊﾝﾚ硼 ﾝ ﾓ贄ﾇ ﾚ碆 耘 ﾋ睇ﾋ ﾓ蓙ﾇﾊ 蒄ﾝｿ"
衵ﾇ ﾏ ﾚ碆 ﾞ矗衂 ﾚ碆 耨ﾊﾞﾈ硼, ﾑﾛﾈﾊ衂 ﾝ ﾊﾒ跫ﾌ.
ﾃﾋ萇ﾁ ﾅﾞﾇ飜 ﾝ ﾓ贄ﾇ ﾔ袞ﾊ ﾒ貮ﾌ ﾇ瞽ﾏﾏ 聿 ﾕﾏﾞﾇﾊ
ﾇ瞠贄ﾇﾊ ﾇ矣貮ﾊ ﾍﾕ砌 ﾚ碆 ﾃﾒ貮ﾌ ﾌﾏ ﾃﾕﾈﾍ ﾃ肄ﾇﾊ
ﾝ翩 ﾈﾚﾏ.
跂ﾚ ﾃ 矚 ﾝﾟﾑﾊ ﾇ睾ﾇﾕﾉ ﾚ ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ ﾝﾃ萇. ﾃﾝﾟﾑ ﾝ ﾇ瞑貮ﾌ 衵ﾇ ﾃ耜 ﾘﾈﾚ ﾈﾇ砌ﾓﾈﾉ 硼 ﾅ睇 ﾃ蒿 ﾃﾝﾖ ﾇ瞽聶 聿 ﾃﾌ ﾇ瞞ﾚﾈ ﾇ瞠贄 ﾇ瞰ﾏﾞ ﾝ ﾇ礦ﾞﾊ ﾇ瞋ﾇ裝.
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My mother always ask me on the phone,
展hat have you been doing in Syria for three and half years, Kiyomi?
During this period, most of my Syrian girlfriends
met nice partners, got engaged, married and become
a mother. Yet everybody has different idea about one痴
marriage. I have been trying to think about my marriage
but now I prefer to work for people of Syria.
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